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These Triggers Are a Gift

Honoring the Messages Beneath the Reactions There’s a moment on the healing path when the very thing we once dreaded—the trigger—becomes something we approach with curiosity. Not with fear. Not with judgment. But with reverence. Because we realize: this isn’t just discomfort. It’s an invitation. It’s a signal from our inner world, asking us to turn inward. Not to retreat in shame or spiral in self-blame—but to listen, hold space, and decode the message beneath the reaction.  The tightness in the chest? A younger version of us remembering a time it wasn't safe to ask for what we needed.  The flash of anger? A boundary crossed, perhaps one we weren't allowed to name in the past.  The impulse to please or perform? A survival strategy that once helped us stay connected when love felt conditional. And so, the trigger becomes a trailhead . A beginning—not a failure. It doesn’t mean we’re broken. It means we’re being given a chance to meet ourselves more deeply. To see wha...